Coping With Our Child’s “First Seizure”
Three days after his sixth Christmas, my youngest son experienced what his doctors have called a “first seizure.” We went immediately to the emergency room, where several tests were ran, as doctors tried to rule out any physical cause for the seizure. They came up empty, and have called it a “first seizure.”
Although I understand that they’re making a clinical diagnosis, that doesn’t exact inspire much confidence on my part. After all, “first” implies that there are going to be more than one.
What Exactly Is A “First Seizure?”
We’re currently in the process of learning what this means. What we’ve learned thus far is the following:
- On a global basis, up to 5% of people can expect to experience at least one seizure in their lifetime
- Evidence suggests that, unless there is a family history of epilepsy, (or other neurological abnormality), only 33% of those first seizures experience more seizures (over a 4-year period)
- For those who experience a second seizure, the risk of a third seizure rises dramatically
Right now, we’re on pins and needles, hoping that second ball doesn’t drop. And worried that if it does, we pray that he doesn’t get hurt in the process.
What we know right now is that there are nearly as many reasons for seizures as there are people on the planet. We’ve talked to people who have seizures induced by flickering lights, medications, locations, flashing colors, specific colors, moving objects, … And the list goes on, and on. It seems in most cases, the reasons are totally unknown. I’m quite certain that there are far more people who suffer from seizures for totally unknown reasons.
One of the most helpful things I’ve encountered about seizures is the concept of a “seizure threshold.” This concept suggests that all people have a delicate balance between excitatory and inhibitory forces in the brain, and that anything that upsets that balance may induce a seizure event. It may be that certain individuals are at greater risk for having that balance disturbed. Or, that for certain individuals, that balance is more susceptible to being disturbed by some unknown factors.
Right now, we’re following the “standard regimen,” which calls for an EEG. We went for that this morning. He got up with Mommy at 2am Tuesday morning so he would be good and tired for the test. We all trooped down to the diagnostic imaging center for a 9am appointment, where he was treated very good by the technicians conducting the tests. He held up like a trooper, but they put a cap on him and ran a 30-minute EEG, catching some sleep in the process. Kind of interesting to see his brainwaves while he was dreaming.
It makes me wonder what my little boys dream about. Puppy dogs and cinnamon rolls?
I can only hope they stay so innocent.
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Greg,
Glad to hear your son is doing well! I have been following your story. I feel for you, as a parent!
It is wonderful that you are sharing your experience and the learning you are now encountering from the seizure.
Good for you, this will help many!
I hope this was a one time event!
Take Care
Lyne
We must always live for today!
It must be rather nerve wracking. My thoughts are with you guys.
Hey Greg
All the best for you and your son, hope that’s his first and last.
I can relate to your concerns. I have twin 5 year old grand daughters who are the light of my life. One of them had a seizure at three at her home and has had two more at my home. She had a 24 hour eeg and was diagnosed with epilepsy and put on meds which she is tolerating very well. Now her sister has had one a week ago during a blizzard which was very scary. We are baffled because they are not identical. I have been online trying to find an enviromental or diet cause. Hopefully your little one will not have another one but I know how you feel!
@Pat – Sorry to hear about your grand daughters. I’ve come to the conclusion that no one really “understands” seizures. Unfortunately, today my son suffered his third seizure. I’m afraid we’re in for a long road…